It’s so much easier to look good from a distance. I mean, from 25 feet away people can look pretty good. Take me for example – when you stand across the room you can’t quite make out the newly forming fine lines around my eyes, and the scars from my scrappier days. (I ain’t no holla-back-girl – yeah, I said it – lol) You can’t see the bonded chip in my front tooth when I smile or it’s crooked way.
The same kind of thing is true for our personalities. And while mystery exists forgiveness abounds – right up until the point where we think we’ve got someone figured out. Once we think we’ve got ’em pegged, the forgiveness stops and scrutiny begins. This along with the unloading of suggestions on what we think will make a person, whom we’ve unwillingly placed under a microscope, look or be better. Do you sometimes find it easier to be nice to strangers than to your family members? I know I’ve been there, as recently as today. But under that microscope, things only APPEAR bigger – they’re not any bigger or smaller when the lens is taken away. What are YOU magnifying in your life today?
Perfection is not what the world would have us think it is. The wrinkles forming on my skin means I made it thru adolescence – something most of the adults who knew me in my teen years would’ve bet big bucks I would never do. The scars I have are a reminder that God heals wounds, even for the agressors. My crooked smile is one that reminds me that even when we’re broken gratitude is a powerful thing and a smile can change someone else’s day for the better. How has someone’s positivity changed your day?
Related verse: Psalm 69:30
Your new-wrinkle-havin’-crooked-smilin’ friend –